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A Physician's Philosophy: Shared Decisions, Honest Conversations
Our oncologists explain how they actually make decisions with patients — not for them. Why they'll show you the data, not just the conclusion, and what "shared decision making" looks like in a real exam room.
Video coming soon — story currently in production
This story is for you if…
- Patients who want to understand their treatment plan, not just receive it
- Family members navigating second opinions
- Anyone who has felt rushed at a previous appointment
Moments that mattered
- Drawing the treatment plan on paper, by hand
- Asking what 'a good week' looks like for you
- Saying 'I don't know yet — and here's how we'll find out'
The story, chapter by chapter
0:00
Why I became an oncologist
- The patient who changed how I practice
- What residency at a major academic center taught me
- Why I bring my notebook into every room
1:30
How we decide together
- Showing the data, not just the recommendation
- What 'standard of care' really means — and when we leave it
- When a clinical trial is the right answer
3:00
What I promise my patients
- Honesty, even when it's hard
- A direct line during the first weeks
- We treat the person, not the scan
"I'd rather spend an extra fifteen minutes today than have you wonder for the next fifteen years."
Questions families ask after this story
What is shared decision making in cancer care?
It's a model where your oncologist explains the evidence and trade-offs of each option, then makes the decision with you based on your goals, values, and life circumstances.
How do I get a second opinion?
You can request a second opinion at any point, even after starting treatment. Bring your pathology report, imaging on disc, and a list of medications.
